Tuesday, May 6, 2008

BACK TO THE PAST


Imagine this : you were so passioned to be a doctor since you were a boy. You studied hard until you made it through university. Now, you are in your dream job. But dream not always sweet. There are obstacles and challenges that might make you think again : Am I choose a right job? Lastly, regretting is not avoidable.




Similar situation happens to me too.

I don't feel comfortable (and far from delighted) of telling the deeper story. But for sure I am very pleased to propose a solution : just back to the past. I really mean it.

Perhaps, the more proper question instead of "Am I right?" is "Why I am very interested in this job since I was a child?". I also think there are many person out there feeling the same. We are interested on a thing often because of its outer appearance. A person so ambitious to be an engineer because he thought he could be famous, building great structures. What he didn't know is he may face a bossy boss, a stressful working environment and not supportive colleagues.

Very unfortunate for human beings, because this phenomenon is not only occurs in work, but also in every living aspect. A marriage could bring to destruction only because of fading love, something you didn't expect in your first loving experience.

So, dreaming something big is good, but don't forget to worst case scenario. Reality is not as delighting as we ever think.

6 comments:

kepalakotak said...

just do it!!
think later!!
if you do too much of thinking, you won't go anywhere.

hisyam said...

What may come will come...
All those thinkings will only make you a headache.

After all,dreams are what make us believe and hope. Not knowing what may happen in the process of achieving your dreams, yet we face it
proudly makes you feel that the dream is something worthwhile to be chased, isn't it?

So.stop thinking about all those things but think more on how to make your dreams come true.

van der shraaf said...

kepala kotak...

thinking is a healthy lifestyle though...

van der shraaf said...

hi hisyam...

i'm not talking about how much we dream...
but rather how if we regret once we have achieved our dream...
dream for me is a good thing in life...
but reality, of course is different with dream...
that's why I told you not fully believe your dream...

PrinCeSS said...

people n dreamz..
we're so busy trying to strive for the best just to get what we're dreaming of to think about 'why' we want it..
and but as we get it, that kind of questions keep popping in our minds..

my advice, just let it be bcoz as we think about it, we'll just find it harder to find the answer..and maybe there's no answer for it

anyhow, life must go on..just continue what u'r doing..and maybe later u'll find something's hiding behind that dream..

van der shraaf said...

hi princess...

yes, I don't neglect the power of ignorance...
and life must go on...
but well, we just can't avoid thinking about yourself...
normal person should be familiar with such behavior...